I had to look twice at the headline on the news the today:
‘Trolls
made my life a misery’ says Nicola Brookes.
My initial reaction was to buy an old camper van, a huge flood light and
some hiking gear – Troll hunting! I can
see it now on some dodgy digital channel, the gravely voiced announcer
introducing: ‘and tonight after Ice Road Truckers, we have our exciting new
series The Troll Hunter.’ Imagine my
disappointment when I sat down to listen to the BBC News segment, to find that
Nicola Brookes hadn’t had an unfortunate mishap whilst camping in Norway, but
had in fact just had some problems with nasty people on Facebook. To be fair what happened to her was pretty
extreme (did someone not tell her about privacy settings?) – just because she
commented about Frankie Cocozza, the X Factor contestant (have to be honest
with you, no bloody idea who he is) – but she’s not the only person and I’m
sure you’ve read of some other pretty unpleasant bulling incidents not only on
Facebook and other social media, but across the internet over the last few
years.
Apparently in 2011 police officers logged 12,300 alleged offences on the
social networking site - and without doubt Nicola Brookes was very badly
treated on Facebook - but I am concerned that we are about to enter into a new
phase – especially in the UK – of panic mongering and hysteria by the right
wing press and knee jerk reactions from our delightful government (Theresa May). Already over the last few weeks UK newspapers
have been ramping up the hysteria levels to post 9/11 ‘anti-Islam’ levels. Headlines about ‘Paedophiles talking to your
children on the web’ have been splashed across the press - which I suppose helps deflect
from the disgusting phone hacking that they were all involved in (its ok, we’ll
forget about that soon). I would love to
know how many of these 12,300 complaints were by teenagers who had got the hump
because a friend has said they’re looking a bit fat at the moment or because
they haven’t been invited to a party. You
have to also wonder if that means that the other 28,618,490 UK Facebook users
are quite happy with the service?
I should explain just for the record that I’m
not a big Facebook user myself (I have no friends). I find
it incredibly boring looking at photos of Geoff and Margret’s new fitted
kitchen, or cute photos of Tom and Holly’s new born baby. Users edited and sanitised posts about their
lives don’t interest me in the slightest – give me some nutcase going off the
rails on Twitter any time.Of course there’s always the other option if you do
become a victim of internet trolling like Conservative MP Louise Mensch or Nicola
Brookes. If you feel that you can’t go
on using social media anymore, just delete the account and walk away. You will always have the power of the off
button.

Hmmmm.....I like Facebook for no other reason than it helps me keep up with my kids and all of my extended family. I've never been bullied in a way that I can handle, but I'm sure my time will come.
ReplyDeleteI don't really get Twitter, though. I don't spend any time there.
Hi Nessa, I think Twitter only really works if you use it from a mobile phone. Thanks for leaving a comment - you always do (whatever the subject) and I'm very grateful.
DeleteGood post and more power to ya! I was a late comer to facebook and used it primarily for musical stuff, but like you (and I figure, like many) I grew tired of petty bickering amongst people who would not diss each other in real life but felt the public forum was the way to air their dirty sheets....oh and the data mining stuff too...
ReplyDeletei got a few odd looks but hey if people want to see me or if their is a particular gig i MUST attend their is a thing called a phone...
and yes all due respect i did find looking at endless pictures of someone's new puppy/baby/flat/car/dress/shoes/breasts/hairstyle/shoelaces/teapots/sheets/frying pan/letterbox etc etc a bit onerous...
Hi Dan, I have been on Facebook since 2009 but rarely use it. It always seems a bit false. Thanks for your comment - and yes the truth is all we really need is a phone.
DeleteA thought provoking post Dicky and I certainly agree with your last two sentences in particular.
ReplyDeleteHi Abbey - thank you for dropping by.
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